The Alchemy of Intentions That Grow Stronger Over Time Some intentions take time—and revisiting them isn’t failure. It’s refinement. It’s bringing new energy into seeds already planted. Sometimes the second flame burns brighter than the first. When you return to an old spell, you're not repeating history. You're deepening it. You're whispering to the universe that you’re still here, committed, and moved by the same desire—only now with more wisdom, more clarity. The Psychology of Intentions and Motivation You’re working with intention-setting magic, and research supports its power: writing down your intentions turns fleeting thoughts into grounded plans that move through the world with force. This simple act boosts the odds of follow-through by giving your intention substance and structure. FLOWN But the human mind isn’t a straight line from intention to action. In psychology, researchers describe how even our strongest goals can drift without concrete planning. That’s where implementation intentions—if-then...

Moonlight, Outsiders, and the Fire That Binds Us When night falls and the torches rise, who do you run with? In the thick of ancient Athens—where polished temples whispered Apollo’s name and marble feet lined polite avenues—there came a goddess who didn’t ask to be tamed. She was Bendis, a Thracian moon-huntress with fire in her bones and the scent of deep woods clinging to her offerings. She arrived with foreigners, outlanders, and women who didn’t shrink under starlight. She wasn’t one of “their” gods—but they made room anyway. The Feast of Bendidia wasn’t about fitting in. It was about showing up lit—with a torch in one hand and a wild heart in the other. What Was the Feast of Bendidia? Held at night, under the full moon, the Bendidia was a dual celebration: one part formal Athenian ritual, one part raw Thracian mystery rite. Two separate ceremonies ran in parallel—one...

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Let’s stop playing. We are in the middle of a collective unraveling and spiritual burnout—planetary, personal, magical. And far too many witches, seekers, and lightworkers are trying to hold it together with aesthetic spells, trending affirmations, and whatever the algorithm served them that day.

You know us—we love a good “dark and mysterious” vibe. We’ve brewed candles for shadow work, danced with the Dark Moon, and invoked deities who don’t always come wearing halos. But let’s clear something up before anyone gets confused:

The “Dark Enlightenment” that’s floating around online? Yeah… that’s not one of our candles. It’s not even a spell. It’s a political philosophy—and not the empowering, change-the-world kind. It’s the “let’s throw democracy out with the bathwater” kind.

So here’s a friendly PSA for our community of magic-makers, mystics, and conscious creators: just because it sounds witchy doesn’t mean it’s aligned with your soul.

What Even Is the "Dark Enlightenment"?

  Life has a way of throwing us into the deep end when we least expect it. One day, you’re gliding through life with a smug little “I’ve got this” attitude, and the next, you’re staring at your ceiling at 3 AM wondering if Mercury is in retrograde—or if you just made a series of spectacularly bad decisions. Here’s the thing: magic isn’t about waiting for the universe to bail you out. It’s about stepping up, lighting a damn candle, and making some energy work in your favor. That’s where Coventry candles come in—crafted with intention and a little extra push from the unseen forces that keep the world spinning. Pair them with the right crystals, and suddenly, you’re not just hoping for a better outcome; you’re actively calling it in. So, whether you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or just in need of a little “please let things go right today” moment,...

Stop Blaming the Universe: The Real Work of Magic What if I told you magic wasn’t about celestial whims or cosmic favoritism? That the universe isn’t a vending machine, ready to dispense your every wish with the right combination of words and herbs? The truth is, magic isn’t about luck—it’s about learning, self-discovery, and practice. Yes, practice. Lots of it. Spells don’t succeed—or fail—because the universe is stingy. They succeed when you’ve aligned your intention, clarified your desires, and honed your craft. And when they fail? That’s where the juicy part begins. It’s not a rejection; it’s an invitation to look deeper, refine your magic, and uncover the lessons waiting for you. Magic isn’t an act of desperation or blind hope—it’s a process of growth. It’s about peeling back the layers of your need, facing your fears, and building the skill to craft spells that truly work. Let’s explore how to...

Let’s start with the big question: Is candle magic evil? It’s one of those questions that makes me smile, mostly because it reveals just how much mystery and misunderstanding still surrounds magic. So, let’s sit down, grab a candle (preferably a Coventry one), and unpack this idea together. Spoiler alert: the answer might surprise you.   The Roots of the Fear Let’s take a quick walk through history. For centuries, anything outside of the dominant religious or cultural norms was labeled as “evil.” If it didn’t fit within the sanctioned belief system, it was shunned or demonized. Magic, being an empowering practice that often bypassed institutional authority, landed squarely in the crosshairs. Think about it: candle magic is deeply personal. It’s about you taking control of your energy and intentions, and that’s powerful stuff. Historically, anything that put power back into the hands of the individual made those in control a...

  Setting intent is the beating heart of magic—it’s the spark that ignites the flame and sets your desires in motion. Without intent, you’re just going through the motions, like a GPS without a destination. But when you set your intent with clarity and purpose, you align your energy with the universe in a way that’s almost impossible to ignore. Intent isn’t just a wish; it’s a declaration. It’s planting your flag in the soil of possibility and claiming your space in the world. So, let’s talk about how to set your intent in a way that’s not just effective but downright transformative.   Start with the “Why” Intent begins with asking yourself, why? Why do you want what you want? Why is this goal important to you? Too often, we skip this step and jump straight into the “how” of making things happen. But understanding your “why” gives your intent...

Let’s talk about something vital to your magical practice: candle safety. It may not be the most glamorous part of working with candles, but trust me, it’s just as magical as any spell you’ll cast. The flame you light isn’t just fire—it’s alive. It’s a living, moving force that transforms energy. And with great magic comes great responsibility. Every time you light a candle, you’re entering into a relationship with that flame. It’s powerful, it’s dynamic, and yes, it’s unpredictable. Over the years, I’ve seen flames do things that defy logic—jumping impossibly far to catch a flammable surface. So, let’s talk about how to keep your magic safe, your eyebrows intact, and your spellwork drama-free.   First Things First: Use a Fire-Safe Candle Holder Rule number one: always use a fire-safe candle holder. I don’t care how sturdy your altar or table looks—a proper holder is non-negotiable. It keeps your candle...

When was the last time you let yourself dream? I mean really dream—fearlessly, with your heart wide open. Because, let me tell you, dreams are where the magic starts. If you’re ready to roll up your sleeves and light a fire under those dreams, then you’re in the right place. Candle magic isn’t just about setting an intention; it’s about creating a spark—literally and spiritually. This isn’t a passive process where you whisper to the universe and wait. Nope. This is a co-creative dance with the cosmos, and every step matters. Let me guide you through it, one flame at a time. Step One: Name That Desire Manifestation starts with clarity. If your dreams are murky or undecided, the universe will have no idea what to do with them. Sit down with a notebook and your favorite pen, and write out what you want. Not what your mom wants, not what...

  There is a mood that comes from candles lit in a dim room.  You are immediately relieved of your earthy (daily) concerns, your brain slows down and you can breathe a little slower.   Candle magic taps into the mood set with this hue of light and starts to unwind your spirit to align with your intent. Every part of candle magic contributes to the weave of magic you are creating.  The flame, the scent, the blessing, the space you are in and the color all contribute to the magic.   Don’t discount the importance of color in your candle magic.  Each color carries its own unique energy that assists in the transformation you are intending.  In the Big Book of Candle magic (page 80) I dive into the color feedback loop where your emotional reaction to a color affects its vibrations and the vibration of the color affects our energy....

Feeling like your spell didn’t work is disheartening.  It makes you wonder if magic and energy is real or you are just fooling yourself.  Maybe you wonder if the divine is mad at you and you are in punishment.  You did the work.  You lovingly prepared your candles, precisely chose the herbs, and carefully wrote the petition—and still you didn't get the outcome you wanted.  “Why isn’t this working?” But here's the thing: magic is as much about self-discovery and inner growth as it is about external results. Let’s explore why your spell might not be hitting the mark and how to realign for success. Is It Working? The Subtle Signs of Success Magic isn’t always loud and dramatic. Often, its effects show up as subtle shifts, like the faintest breeze moving through your life. Look for those tiny signs that things are beginning to shift: maybe a difficult conversation went...

Candle magic. It might seem like the simplest form of spellwork—a flame, some wax, and your intentions. But don’t let that simplicity fool you. Beneath that flickering light lies profound power and centuries of tradition. This isn’t just a candle—it’s a portal to transformation, a dance of elements, and your direct line to the Universe. Let’s dive in and explore why candle magic works, why it’s so powerful, and how it transforms your intentions into reality. Pull up a chair. Aunt Jacki is about to get real, magical, and maybe just a little bit sassy.   The Spark of Intention: Where Magic Begins Here’s the deal: magic starts with intention. If you’re just lighting a candle without knowing what you want, it’s like putting an envelope in the mail without an address. Candle magic gives your intention a home, a destination, and a clear path to get there. When you light...

The bóveda (literally “vault” in Spanish) is a sacred space for honoring your ancestors and spirit guides—a kind of spiritual hotline to the Other Side. Think of it as a metaphysical charging station where your spirits get their clarity, power, and pep while you get their guidance, protection, and possibly a few side-eyes if you forget to refresh the water. In essence, the bóveda is a bridge between the land of the living and the dead, a portal where you can pray, meditate, divine, and occasionally just spill your existential tea to someone who won’t interrupt. While the basics of setting up a bóveda are fairly consistent, every practitioner adds their own flair. Some follow strict traditional setups; others let their spirits guide them to something more unique. Spoiler alert: you’ll eventually fall into the second group once you get the hang of it. But first, let’s walk through the essentials....

September is coming and that means … Pumpkin Spice Lattes. Kidding. It means we’re entering the harvest season, and that is a great opportunity for personal growth and introspection. Our ancestors celebrated this time with rituals of gratitude and preparation. We can harness the energy of autumn to charge up our meditation and reflection practices.

“What you radiate outward, you will attract inward.” —Dr. Joe Vitale

The journey of manifestation is not merely a pursuit of external goals or material success. Manifestation is a profound transformation of your inner world, a shift in your consciousness that aligns you with the vibration of abundance and fulfillment. At the heart of this journey lies the manifestation mindset, a way of being that embodies the reality you desire to create.

“Coincidence is God’s way of remaining anonymous.” —Albert Einstein

In the realm of manifestation, synchronicity is that invisible force that guides you toward your (usually) intended reality. It’s the universal orchestration of seemingly unrelated events, people, and circumstances that align in remarkable ways to support your journey.

It’s a beautiful spring day where the fields are lush with colors. The green of the early buds, the gold of the dandelions, and the purple of the blooming lilacs fill you with the peace of abundance. Everywhere you look, the magic of nature is flowing around you, prosperous in its brilliance of life’s potential. This is the power of color to inspire your mood and set the tone for the magic you are about to experience.

Where does the magic happen? In the universe of course! Without the universe, we could not create. It is like a garden ready to be planted with your ideas and desires and what you plant will grow exponentially. Plus, it’s very important that you are clear and purposeful with your visualizations, words, and tone (the way you say your words).

In the realm of personal growth and spiritual practices, the use of candles paired with intentions stands out as a profoundly transformative ritual. This simple, yet powerful, tradition transcends cultures and ages, tapping into the elemental force of fire to symbolize illumination, warmth, and renewal.